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<rss xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" version="2.0"><channel><atom:link rel="hub" href="http://tumblr.superfeedr.com/" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom"/><description>I’m alison and everyday is a struggle. I hope to make peace with myself one day.</description><title>at a loss for words</title><generator>Tumblr (3.0; @coffee-and-sleep)</generator><link>http://coffee-and-sleep.tumblr.com/</link><item><title>natterr:

Dear world, telling somebody they need to eat more isn’t any more acceptable than telling...</title><description>&lt;p&gt;&lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://natterr.tumblr.com/post/53400100119/dear-world-telling-somebody-they-need-to-eat"&gt;natterr&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Dear world,&lt;br/&gt; telling somebody they need to eat more isn’t any more acceptable than telling somebody they need to eat less.&lt;br/&gt; xoxo&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;</description><link>http://coffee-and-sleep.tumblr.com/post/53408559458</link><guid>http://coffee-and-sleep.tumblr.com/post/53408559458</guid><pubDate>Wed, 19 Jun 2013 22:52:59 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>"Overcome your uncertainties and free yourself from dwelling on sorrow. When you delight in..."</title><description>“Overcome your uncertainties and free yourself from dwelling on sorrow. When you delight in existence, you will become a guide to those in need, revealing the path to many.”&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; - &lt;em&gt;Siddhartha Gautama, the Buddha    (via &lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://vicgro.tumblr.com/"&gt;vicgro&lt;/a&gt;)&lt;/em&gt;</description><link>http://coffee-and-sleep.tumblr.com/post/53403787694</link><guid>http://coffee-and-sleep.tumblr.com/post/53403787694</guid><pubDate>Wed, 19 Jun 2013 21:45:52 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>-apple:

i don’t understand how my room gets so messy when i literally sit in one spot with my...</title><description>&lt;p&gt;&lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://-apple.tumblr.com/post/38594021527/i-dont-understand-how-my-room-gets-so-messy-when"&gt;-apple&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;i don’t understand how my room gets so messy when i literally sit in one spot with my laptop all day&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;</description><link>http://coffee-and-sleep.tumblr.com/post/53401283959</link><guid>http://coffee-and-sleep.tumblr.com/post/53401283959</guid><pubDate>Wed, 19 Jun 2013 21:09:29 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>"If you want to succeed in your life, remember this phrase: That past does not equal the future...."</title><description>“If you want to succeed in your life, remember this phrase: That past does not equal the future. Because you failed yesterday; or all day today; or a moment ago; or for the last six months; the last sixteen years; or the last fifty years of life, doesn’t mean anything… All that matters is: What are you going to do, right now?”&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; - &lt;em&gt;Anthony Robbins (via &lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://larmoyante.com/"&gt;larmoyante&lt;/a&gt;)&lt;/em&gt;</description><link>http://coffee-and-sleep.tumblr.com/post/53386560096</link><guid>http://coffee-and-sleep.tumblr.com/post/53386560096</guid><pubDate>Wed, 19 Jun 2013 17:31:46 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>Photo</title><description>&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/7afabb59fa7c8498d1bc28ed3e915ac2/tumblr_mmzx84FpCz1qdmzdbo1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;</description><link>http://coffee-and-sleep.tumblr.com/post/53385547487</link><guid>http://coffee-and-sleep.tumblr.com/post/53385547487</guid><pubDate>Wed, 19 Jun 2013 17:17:56 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>suckmysucculent:

I’m honestly pissed off at myself for spending so much time hating everything...</title><description>&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://suckmysucculent.tumblr.com/post/53363763407/im-honestly-pissed-off-at-myself-for-spending-so" class="tumblr_blog"&gt;suckmysucculent&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;blockquote&gt;&lt;p&gt;I’m honestly pissed off at myself for spending so much time hating everything because the world is actually a really beautiful place&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;</description><link>http://coffee-and-sleep.tumblr.com/post/53385543495</link><guid>http://coffee-and-sleep.tumblr.com/post/53385543495</guid><pubDate>Wed, 19 Jun 2013 17:17:52 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>"if 
the ocean 
can calm itself, 
so can you.
we 
are both 
salt water 
mixed with 
air."</title><description>“if &lt;br/&gt;
the ocean &lt;br/&gt;
can calm itself, &lt;br/&gt;
so can you.&lt;br/&gt;
we &lt;br/&gt;
are both &lt;br/&gt;
salt water &lt;br/&gt;
mixed with &lt;br/&gt;
air.”&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; - &lt;em&gt;&lt;em&gt;meditation, &lt;/em&gt;nayyirah waheed (via &lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://rabbrakha.tumblr.com/"&gt;rabbrakha&lt;/a&gt;)&lt;/em&gt;</description><link>http://coffee-and-sleep.tumblr.com/post/53385430259</link><guid>http://coffee-and-sleep.tumblr.com/post/53385430259</guid><pubDate>Wed, 19 Jun 2013 17:16:18 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>"You are not to do anything to be happy. In fact you have done too much to become unhappy. If you..."</title><description>“You are not to do anything to be happy. In fact you have done too much to become unhappy. If you want to be unhappy, do too much. If you want to be happy, allow things, allow things to be. Rest, relax, and be in a letgo. Let-go is the secret of life. Let-go is the secret of religion. Let-go is the greatest secret. When you are in a let-go many things, millions of things, start happening. They were already happening but you were never aware.”&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; - &lt;em&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Osho&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/em&gt;  (via &lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://seulray.tumblr.com/"&gt;seulray&lt;/a&gt;)&lt;/em&gt;</description><link>http://coffee-and-sleep.tumblr.com/post/53385344153</link><guid>http://coffee-and-sleep.tumblr.com/post/53385344153</guid><pubDate>Wed, 19 Jun 2013 17:15:08 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>coeptum:

I always get attached to everyone and no one gets attached to me so I always just feel...</title><description>&lt;p&gt;&lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://coeptum.tumblr.com/post/29173168666/i-always-get-attached-to-everyone-and-no-one-gets"&gt;coeptum&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;I always get attached to everyone and no one gets attached to me so I always just feel dumb&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;</description><link>http://coffee-and-sleep.tumblr.com/post/53331339376</link><guid>http://coffee-and-sleep.tumblr.com/post/53331339376</guid><pubDate>Tue, 18 Jun 2013 23:29:24 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>"Don’t worry about your body.
It isn’t as small as it once was, 
But honestly, the world 
needs more..."</title><description>“Don’t worry about your body.&lt;br/&gt;
It isn’t as small as it once was, &lt;br/&gt;
But honestly, the world 
needs more of you.”&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; - &lt;em&gt;Clementine von Radics (via &lt;a href="http://middle-women.tumblr.com/" class="tumblr_blog"&gt;middle-women&lt;/a&gt;)&lt;/em&gt;</description><link>http://coffee-and-sleep.tumblr.com/post/53327684489</link><guid>http://coffee-and-sleep.tumblr.com/post/53327684489</guid><pubDate>Tue, 18 Jun 2013 22:37:32 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>corsicans:

Come back (par hey, there you are)
</title><description>&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m731evr5Me1qlict8o1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://corsicans.tumblr.com/post/30233403801/come-back-par-hey-there-you-are"&gt;corsicans&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;Come back (par &lt;a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/monstermustaches/7541479228/in/photostream"&gt;hey, there you are&lt;/a&gt;)&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;</description><link>http://coffee-and-sleep.tumblr.com/post/53326034982</link><guid>http://coffee-and-sleep.tumblr.com/post/53326034982</guid><pubDate>Tue, 18 Jun 2013 22:15:06 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>"apologize to your body.
maybe,
that’s where the healing begins."</title><description>“apologize to your body.&lt;br/&gt;
maybe,&lt;br/&gt;
that’s where the healing begins.”&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; - &lt;em&gt;(via &lt;a href="http://asubtleradiance.tumblr.com/" class="tumblr_blog"&gt;asubtleradiance&lt;/a&gt;)&lt;/em&gt;</description><link>http://coffee-and-sleep.tumblr.com/post/53322719268</link><guid>http://coffee-and-sleep.tumblr.com/post/53322719268</guid><pubDate>Tue, 18 Jun 2013 21:29:37 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>"Character, like a photograph, develops in darkness."</title><description>“Character, like a photograph, develops in darkness.”&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; - &lt;em&gt;Yousuf Karsh  (via &lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://thatkindofwoman.tumblr.com/"&gt;thatkindofwoman&lt;/a&gt;)&lt;/em&gt;</description><link>http://coffee-and-sleep.tumblr.com/post/53293956518</link><guid>http://coffee-and-sleep.tumblr.com/post/53293956518</guid><pubDate>Tue, 18 Jun 2013 14:51:00 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>"close enough"</title><description>“close enough”&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; - &lt;em&gt;anyone who’s ever tried to even out their eyeliner. (via &lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://dingyfeathers.tumblr.com/"&gt;dingyfeathers&lt;/a&gt;)&lt;/em&gt;</description><link>http://coffee-and-sleep.tumblr.com/post/53253070817</link><guid>http://coffee-and-sleep.tumblr.com/post/53253070817</guid><pubDate>Tue, 18 Jun 2013 00:18:24 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>chickensandwich:

i don’t ONLY care about myself. i care about like 5 other people. and animals. 
</title><description>&lt;p&gt;&lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://sierraseybold.com/post/52900638900/i-dont-only-care-about-myself-i-care-about-like"&gt;chickensandwich&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;i don’t ONLY care about myself. i care about like 5 other people. and animals. &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;</description><link>http://coffee-and-sleep.tumblr.com/post/53252948418</link><guid>http://coffee-and-sleep.tumblr.com/post/53252948418</guid><pubDate>Tue, 18 Jun 2013 00:16:33 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>Photo</title><description>&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/21748b49c38b0dec71c8933ad21c032e/tumblr_mn3stzYk2P1rpe0jco1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;</description><link>http://coffee-and-sleep.tumblr.com/post/53252787137</link><guid>http://coffee-and-sleep.tumblr.com/post/53252787137</guid><pubDate>Tue, 18 Jun 2013 00:14:07 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>"The fear, too, is a fear of yourself: a completely dualistic and contradictory fear. On one hand it..."</title><description>“The fear, too, is a fear of yourself: a completely dualistic and contradictory fear. On one hand it is a fear that you do not have what it takes to make it, and on the other hand, a possibly greater fear that you do have what it takes, and that by definition you therefore also have a responsibility to do something really big.”&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; - &lt;em&gt;Marya Hornbacher (via &lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://petitesfraises.tumblr.com/"&gt;petitesfraises&lt;/a&gt;)&lt;/em&gt;</description><link>http://coffee-and-sleep.tumblr.com/post/53242018602</link><guid>http://coffee-and-sleep.tumblr.com/post/53242018602</guid><pubDate>Mon, 17 Jun 2013 21:43:20 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>that-is-genius:

i’ve got 99 problems and they’re all calories.
</title><description>&lt;p&gt;&lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://that-is-genius.tumblr.com/post/51445514246/ive-got-99-problems-and-theyre-all-calories"&gt;that-is-genius&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;i’ve got 99 problems and they’re all calories.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;</description><link>http://coffee-and-sleep.tumblr.com/post/53232779898</link><guid>http://coffee-and-sleep.tumblr.com/post/53232779898</guid><pubDate>Mon, 17 Jun 2013 19:30:37 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>lifebyshannon:

I wasn’t sure if I was going to post this,...</title><description>&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/7c384d6fdda02568cf6bf21366f402ad/tumblr_mok7dfyRCq1ritzkvo1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/7fbb6048e044980a868dad383e178747/tumblr_mok7dfyRCq1ritzkvo2_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://lifebyshannon.tumblr.com/post/53229896514/i-wasnt-sure-if-i-was-going-to-post-this-because"&gt;lifebyshannon&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;I wasn’t sure if I was going to post this, because I don’t want to give anyone fuel to compare their body to my body, but this is me in a swimsuit, and I am very much unashamed.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;My body changed drastically throughout recovery. My boobs are two solid cup sizes larger, my hips are round, my arms jiggle, and my thighs touch &lt;em&gt;everywhere&lt;/em&gt;. I see no flaws though. I’m not going to sit here and say that my body’s flaws are beautiful, because I don’t see any flaws. Flaws are a man-made concepts. My body is not any less perfect because I have stretch marks.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Something that is important for everyone to learn is to stop comparing your recovery to another person’s recovery. Maybe someone is weight restored and you still think they look ‘thin,’ whereas your body looks heavier. So what? My body isn’t bony, but I don’t mind if another person’s is. Everyone carries weight differently, everyone feels their best at different weights, the way bodies look is just not a comparable thing.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Love your body because it is &lt;em&gt;your&lt;/em&gt; body. Because it allows you to hug people and listen to music and dance and run and smell flowers and pet baby animals. How your body &lt;em&gt;looks&lt;/em&gt; is hardly relevant when you think of how your body allows you to &lt;em&gt;feel&lt;/em&gt;.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;</description><link>http://coffee-and-sleep.tumblr.com/post/53230973379</link><guid>http://coffee-and-sleep.tumblr.com/post/53230973379</guid><pubDate>Mon, 17 Jun 2013 19:04:22 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>helainetieu:

Finally. Someone who took a photo of their cut...</title><description>&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/9a3d1bc5023e8b853d6839fd8032e726/tumblr_mof3m1vehf1rrb6hfo1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://helainetieu.tumblr.com/post/53061605715/finally-someone-who-took-a-photo-of-their-cut"&gt;helainetieu&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Finally. Someone who took a photo of their cut wounds to speak the truth and not for any other reason.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;</description><link>http://coffee-and-sleep.tumblr.com/post/53230948783</link><guid>http://coffee-and-sleep.tumblr.com/post/53230948783</guid><pubDate>Mon, 17 Jun 2013 19:04:01 -0400</pubDate></item></channel></rss>
